I don’t know if anyone else has this problem but I have a really pacific issue. In general just I suck at talking. I find it hard to put my thoughts to words, I never know what words to use and I never know what to say.

I talk like xQc irl and the act of using words to hard I’m always slurring them out even tho I try not to and I have a stutter and a slip so saying thing is very hard.

  • otp@sh.itjust.works
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    28 days ago

    As others have suggested, professional help would probably be the best way to go about it.

    Otherwise, here are my suggestions as a non-professional:

    • Record yourself and listen to yourself speak, maybe even naturally (maybe on the phone?). Listen for the mistakes you’re making so that you can focus on correcting them.
    • Slow down between words and sentences.
    • Plan out your sentences before you start them.
    • Be okay with using filled pauses. You don’t need ums and uhs, but things like “Well…”. Even something like “Let me think about that for a moment” is okay in certain settings.
    • Look up advice for professional speaking. Advice for live streamers can be great to apply to your situation.