@MuscularGoddess that’s very insightful on two counts. First a dominant knows what it is to serve and knows the expectations they set, and therefore the expectations that others will require of them. I think that makes them attentive and obedient potential subs. Second, of course you have a gravitational pull and could exercise charm, force, or the provision of pleasure or it’s denial to ensure that your former Dom becomes an eager little pup for you
@MuscularGoddess with the exception of your potential quirks and specific preferences: how you like to punish, what deserves a reward, how you require to be worshipped, when is pleasure earned and similarly when is frustration and denied arousal more amusing and fulfilling
Typically my punishments include denied access to me for online subs and slaves. Not completing a task I ask for when I ask for it to be completed results in getting ghosted until you have begged and earned my time again. I have a lot of people wanting to worship me so it can be pretty brutal to earn your way back up the list so that you can be apart of my virtual video conferences to be able to see and interact with me in real time. In person punishments typically involve me taking my frustration out on you physically. Trying to leave a lingering feeling of what you will have to deal with if you disappoint me again.
Also depending on their specific kink in the D/s space I will tailor punishments to that too. Findom slaves want me spending their money, so I won’t and will use someone else’s to get myself something then show it off to the one being punished. Masochists won’t get any physical pain from me, I treat them kindly like any other standard person in my life. Edging….no more edging. Roleplay….I wont read their prompts. Errand boys….no more errands. I use their desires against them to keep them trying hard to please me.
I reward genuine worship. People who care more about what we both get out of the relationship rather than satisfying their own link using me as a muse. The harder they work for me, the more time and energy I will give back. Truthfully a domme is nothing without a sub and vice versa. I can only be as awsome a domme as my subs are willing to let me be.
I’m in my mid 20s and have been a domme since I was roughly 15 so a decade of refining and tweaking methods and sculpting my body to be as perfect and irresistible as possible.
@MuscularGoddess you talk a lot about methods of control, and they all seem very credible. You’re clearly intelligent as well as strong, beautiful, and potentially ferocious. I have no doubt that you can bend someone to your will, and your attentiveness to their psychology could make sure any deviations from your requirements are swiftly corrected.
@MuscularGoddess What you don’t touch on is how you like to handle a sub who has been well conditioned and trained, and who, in truth, you could probably demand most things of. How do you like them to serve you, what are your favourite uses for a good boy who is happy to submit himself to your will? Online, or in person?
@MuscularGoddess that’s very insightful on two counts. First a dominant knows what it is to serve and knows the expectations they set, and therefore the expectations that others will require of them. I think that makes them attentive and obedient potential subs. Second, of course you have a gravitational pull and could exercise charm, force, or the provision of pleasure or it’s denial to ensure that your former Dom becomes an eager little pup for you
Excellently written. You understand it perfectly from my point of view.
@MuscularGoddess with the exception of your potential quirks and specific preferences: how you like to punish, what deserves a reward, how you require to be worshipped, when is pleasure earned and similarly when is frustration and denied arousal more amusing and fulfilling
Typically my punishments include denied access to me for online subs and slaves. Not completing a task I ask for when I ask for it to be completed results in getting ghosted until you have begged and earned my time again. I have a lot of people wanting to worship me so it can be pretty brutal to earn your way back up the list so that you can be apart of my virtual video conferences to be able to see and interact with me in real time. In person punishments typically involve me taking my frustration out on you physically. Trying to leave a lingering feeling of what you will have to deal with if you disappoint me again.
Also depending on their specific kink in the D/s space I will tailor punishments to that too. Findom slaves want me spending their money, so I won’t and will use someone else’s to get myself something then show it off to the one being punished. Masochists won’t get any physical pain from me, I treat them kindly like any other standard person in my life. Edging….no more edging. Roleplay….I wont read their prompts. Errand boys….no more errands. I use their desires against them to keep them trying hard to please me.
I reward genuine worship. People who care more about what we both get out of the relationship rather than satisfying their own link using me as a muse. The harder they work for me, the more time and energy I will give back. Truthfully a domme is nothing without a sub and vice versa. I can only be as awsome a domme as my subs are willing to let me be.
I’m in my mid 20s and have been a domme since I was roughly 15 so a decade of refining and tweaking methods and sculpting my body to be as perfect and irresistible as possible.
@MuscularGoddess you talk a lot about methods of control, and they all seem very credible. You’re clearly intelligent as well as strong, beautiful, and potentially ferocious. I have no doubt that you can bend someone to your will, and your attentiveness to their psychology could make sure any deviations from your requirements are swiftly corrected.
@MuscularGoddess What you don’t touch on is how you like to handle a sub who has been well conditioned and trained, and who, in truth, you could probably demand most things of. How do you like them to serve you, what are your favourite uses for a good boy who is happy to submit himself to your will? Online, or in person?