• tiramichu@sh.itjust.works
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    There’s nothing to stop anyone sending you a message on WhatsApp if they have your number, be they an individual or a company.

    But it IS absolutely infuriating - not because it’s an advert, but because I don’t want any aspect of my communication with companies to take place on third-party proprietary closed platforms of which that company has no ownership or data control and which would require me to have an account with said platform.

    I’m sure many people love being able to contact customer support by shooting them a DM on Instagram, but to me that’s wholly unacceptable.

    If companies want to talk to me it should be through email or SMS only - because those are the only methods which are provider-agnostic.

    Email and SMS are like the original federated systems. (And the postal service is, too!)

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      They can’t send messages out of the blue, you have to contact the company via whatsapp first, after which they have a 24 hour window to reply. Marketing messages are opt in.

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        Maybe thats a law where you live but ive definitely been contacted by a bunch of companies through wpp without having contacted them first.

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        I guess that’s part of WhatsApp’s terms of service. Good to know, thanks.

        Either way, my dislike for corporations using closed platforms still stands. I really wish we had some modern, secure and featureful version of SMS - a federated direct messaging system that everyone was on, and yet nobody owned.

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        I had one of these marketing messages from Amazon this morning. I’ve never contacted them through WhatsApp, and as far as I can remember, have never contacted them outside of their apps. I definitely haven’t contacted them with my phone number.

        They have my phone number, but it’s supposed to be for delivery issues, and I’ve withdrawn all advertising and marketing consent.

        EDIT: I just checked, and I was automatically opted in to WhatsApp marketing, despite having turned off all other marketing 😤

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    Been getting them since 2016. Whatsapp is like the default online business platform for almost all small to medium size businesses. (at least in India) That’s when Meta decided to bring the Whatsapp Business app.

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      Yep in Latin America too. Almost all businesses in Colombia use whatsapp. It’s unlimited use included in most cellular plans. Everyone uses it as default for messaging and calls

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    WhatsApp is owned and run by Meta. If you ever used WhatsApp, you’re a f*cking idiot.

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      11 hours ago

      Tell me you’ve never met anyone from Latin America without telling me you’ve never met anyone from Latin america…

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        That’s fair. I’ll revise to “If you’ve used WhatsApp since they were purchased by Meta, you’re a f*cking idiot.”

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          That’s pretty generalizing. I have people who I need to contact that only use WhatsApp, and it isn’t really possible to get a group of 20–30 sports people all to move to Signal “because the guy who works in IT doesn’t feel comfortable”.

          And ignorance to me is not the same as being an idiot. Being an idiot to me is being presented with the truth and ignoring it. Not knowing is another thing.

          Those were my two cents.

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      This might be a crazy concept but some people have friends and family. While it isn’t heavily used in the US I hear that it is very popular elsewhere.

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      As an android user I almost have no choice since I know too many people who are daft and refuse to change to signal. I have like 7 chat apps on my phone because of different people.

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    Syncthing fork!

    As for whatsapp, well it is not ads per se FROM whatsapp but rather them now sending these VIA whatsapp instead of mail or SMS.

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      Yes, but I didn’t sign up to receive ads in WhatsApp, nor did I agree when creating either account.

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        I see. So all the spam you receive in your email and sms is because you signed up and agreed to receive it?

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    I blocked Whatsapp in Whatsapp and so far I got no new messages from them.

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      Yes, you need the sandboxed Play services and have to gove it a few extra permissions but it works fine after that.

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    Well, this is /MildlyInfuriating and not /Privacy, so I’ll just say that I very much don’t like Facebook and all its spinoff products (or acquired, in the case of WhatsApp).

    I will say, Facebook didn’t spend $21 billion on WhatsApp and not expect some kind of return on that investment. Classic WhatsApp charged $1 a year. There’s no way that’s profitable. I don’t think it asks for that money anymore. I think just selling your data/snooping on your business is enough.

    There is a somewhat interesting solution, though it’s hardly cheap, or practical in many cases. Have one phone be your daily driver and you’re signed into it with your personal accounts and you have stuff on it you trust. Then you have another phone that is not so easily trusted. You sign in to the provider (be it Apple or Google) with a dummy account that is not related to you, and you install these apps you don’t trust. You don’t give the phone location permissions, and you don’t activate it as a cell phone (no SIM card or eSIM). You use it as a WiFi device and hotspot it off your phone or home WiFi. Do the shady stuff (e.g. WhatsApp, TikTok, etc.) on that. If your main phone has a VPN on it, even better, because the other phone can use network location to help identify you. If you’re always in different places, good luck with that.

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      I use android and have work mode enabled that only has contacts for WhatsApp.

      The personal side of my phone has all my contacts and has aurora store, new pipe etc…

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      The main problem with this (from a stock android perspective) is Google play services. Your private phone/daily driver would literally have to be a non-stock rom or one that doesn’t come with Google play services installed at all. Because otherwise Google and other companies linked to them will fingerprint your device and link it that way because those two devices are often in the same place at the same time or on the same network at the same or similar times etc. The and even when you think you’ve given the apps no permissions, Google has a habit of turning this stuff on (location data, telemetry etc) and gathering it in the background.

      https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-11-02/social-media-ban-algorithm-phone-addiction-instagram-x-tiktok-/105844066

      https://www.howtogeek.com/how-google-tracks-and-scans-everything-on-your-android-device/

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    It’s really just ads by said company, not whatsapp. But whatsapp is partially blamed because they have system to do this, and since some service that you subbed require your phone number, they simply used the data they collected to send you ads via whatsapp. It’s like spam mail from service you give your email to.

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    i tried to convince my family and friends to use signal, only my parents wanted to, so still a win :3