• EsmereldaFritzmonster@lemmings.world
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    5 months ago

    It’s been this way for a long time. 20 years ago I was told I came off as angry in my texts. It took me a sec, but I figured out it’s bc i put periods at the end of the last sentence.

    That sounds like a good plan. See you there

    -vs-

    That sounds like a good plan. See you there.

  • 9point6@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    Anyone holding this view can get in the sea

    Equally moronic as saying the letter “e” is passive aggressive

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      5 months ago

      It’s not that EVERY full stop is passive aggressive, it’s about interpreting tone.

      So for example, when I text my parents and say, “Thank you for the invite, we’d be happy to come over for dinner next Monday!” and my dad replies, “Great.” That looks passive aggressive.

      He doesn’t mean it that way, tone interpretation from short texts just isn’t something he’s fluent in like those of us who’ve been texting (or IMing back before texts) most of our lives.

      If he had said “Great” that would be fine, as would “Great!” But “Great.” is interpreted as sarcastic and/or passive aggressive.