Risky

On Android and IOS, i like Snikket.

On desktop, Gajim

Yes, i have used tailscale. I just use wireguard alone because I find it has better performance in my experience.

Lemmy Jellyfin Wireguard so I can access my home network from outside

All three are easy to manage(so far).

My main gripe is with movies. After a while, the simlar video recomentaions are filled with “Free with Ads” movies. I don’t even watch movies on Youtube. Its annoying.

I usually have to clear cookies to get rid of them.