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Cake day: June 28th, 2023

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  • First, I’m sorry to hear about the situation. It seems like you want the best for your brother.

    I’m a stranger on the Internet, so take what I say with a grain of salt.

    Based on what I read, I worry if you allow him to get close to you that you or your wife could be a victim of his eventually.

    Perhaps he needs guidance and structure, but I question if he is ready to accept it from you.

    If you end up wanting to help him, make certain you’re not enabling his bad habits.

    It’s a tough place to be. Don’t beat yourself up for not being able to “fix” everything.