Hey lemmy! I’ve been very sexual active but now that I moved I’m not too active. I’ve had over a 100 partners so far so I’m a bit experienced lol.

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    15 days ago

    A guy sleeping with 100+ women is a top-tier player, a woman sleeping with 100+ dudes is a slut. How have you dealt with your reputation/other people around you? Did people “know”?

    Edit: to be clear, I find the double standards really unfair, and I wonder about the pov of a woman on this

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      15 days ago

      Honestly I don’t hide the fact I sleep around at all. Some people do look down on me but I’ve learnt to not care. So the “slut” tag isn’t something that I look at as a bad thing.

      One thing is that my gal friends don’t like me talking with their boyfriends. I slept with one of my friends bf on accident and that follows me still. Partially my fault for not checking but yk.

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        15 days ago

        I guess at least you’ve proven that he’s not faithful :) don’t think you’re even partially responsible for not assuming this guy had a partner he’s supposed to be in a monogamous relationship with 🤷

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          I suppose but I still should have asked. At least now I’m not sleeping with cheaters.