Hey lemmy! I’ve been very sexual active but now that I moved I’m not too active. I’ve had over a 100 partners so far so I’m a bit experienced lol.

  • Sharkcatfish@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    3·
    4 days ago

    Do you see yourself ever settling down with one guy in the future? What would it take for such a guy to qualify? What would have to change in your life?

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      1·
      4 days ago

      I don’t think I will. I don’t feel a need for a relationship like that. You never know tho!

  • akassou@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    121·
    9 days ago

    A guy sleeping with 100+ women is a top-tier player, a woman sleeping with 100+ dudes is a slut. How have you dealt with your reputation/other people around you? Did people “know”?

    Edit: to be clear, I find the double standards really unfair, and I wonder about the pov of a woman on this

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      121·
      9 days ago

      Honestly I don’t hide the fact I sleep around at all. Some people do look down on me but I’ve learnt to not care. So the “slut” tag isn’t something that I look at as a bad thing.

      One thing is that my gal friends don’t like me talking with their boyfriends. I slept with one of my friends bf on accident and that follows me still. Partially my fault for not checking but yk.

      • akassou@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        7·
        9 days ago

        I guess at least you’ve proven that he’s not faithful :) don’t think you’re even partially responsible for not assuming this guy had a partner he’s supposed to be in a monogamous relationship with 🤷

        • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
          6·
          9 days ago

          I suppose but I still should have asked. At least now I’m not sleeping with cheaters.

  • Lucky_777@lemmy.worldEnglish
    7·
    9 days ago

    What percentage would you say actually made you orgasm?

    How many went down on you without you asking?

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      6·
      9 days ago

      Maybe around 15-20.

      Very few, maybe like 3. Usually they ask before they go down.

  • Ekybio@lemmy.worldEnglish
    4·
    9 days ago

    What is your emotional regard for the whole situation? Like, are you polyamorous or something similar? Just single and having fun? How would you label youself and why?

    Im cursious how that works in this regard, since Im poly myself and always interested how other bridge the gap between sex and emotions.

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      5·
      9 days ago

      I’m single and not interested in relationships. Emotionally I’m happy with how it is right now. I’m not confused or stressed in any way.

  • shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    3·
    8 days ago
    1. How sensitive is your clit? Can it take direct and intense stimulation, does it take only light stimulation directly, or can you only stimulate it through the hood?
    2. Does your clitoris stick out outside the hood normally or does it stay inside?
    3. How big would you say your clitoris is?
    4. In what ways do you like your clitoris to be stimulated?
    5. When you are aroused, what happens to your clit?
    6. When you are having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it throb? Does it stay the same?
    7. After your are done having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it become sensitive, or does it stay the same?
    8. Are there any extra sensitive or less sensitive spots on your clitoris? Where?
    9. Have you ever injured or bruised your clit? How did that go?

    As for orgasms:

    1. What does your standard orgasm feel like? How do you prefer to get there?
    2. Can you describe how the clitoral and the g-spot orgasm feel? (muscle tension, tingling sensations, etc.)
    3. Is it hard for you to reach multiple orgasms?
    4. Do multiple orgasms feel different than just one? How do they feel different?
    5. Is it possible to have too many and if so, what does that feel like?
    6. Is there a point where you have to “recharge” like men before you can have the next orgasm?
    7. Is it possible for you to stop your self from having an orgasm when you are having one?
    8. How have your orgasms changed with age
    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      2·
      8 days ago

      1. Nothing really like a standard orgasm. I have many ways of getting there.

      2. I’ll just describe the common parts, my insides tenses up for sure, kind of in waves? Depending on the intensity some shivering and limbs losing strength and control. My teeth feel kinda floaty too (sometimes)

      3. Depends on how aroused I was/am.

      4. If it’s immediately after one then yes. Usually the “second” one is stronger but it’s much much harder to reach.

      5. Not sure. I don’t really like the idea of having many orgasms quickly. I enjoy sex both for the orgasm and the actual sex stuff.

      6. Well not exactly like you guys but similar. I go a bit number usually so there is that. I get tired too but again, depends. If I didn’t go numb and if I have energy then there’s pretty much no recharge.

      7. Nope and I don’t want to try. I can delay the start but once it starts I’m really not going to stop it.

      8. I found “different” orgasms. Not sure how to describe that sorry!

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      2·
      8 days ago

      I’ll be honest, my clit not something I’m generally thinking off, most of my arousal is by insertion and foreplay/ the scenario. I’ll still answer them tho lol.

      1. not very sensitive. Just a little more than the rest.

      2. I don’t know. I honestly am not really checking.

      3. it’s been described as small

      4. No preference, just include it in the fun!

      5. I believe it stiffens a bit but not much

      6. Not sure, I’m really not focused on that when I’m orgasming 😭 also it probably varies based on the kind of orgasm.

      7. I’m kinda number and sensitive at the same time after an orgasm. I’ve not noticed anything different with my clit.

      8. Not sure, sorry!

      9. I think I have, but tbh I don’t recall what or how it happened.

      I’ll answer the rest in another comment

      • shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        3·
        8 days ago

        I do have some other questions if you’re up for them:

        • What does arousal feel like in general to you?
        • Do you like cuddling?
        • What does cunnilingus feel like?
        • Have you ever squirted, and if so, what does that feel like?
        • What does it feel like to touch your clit when unaroused?
        • Would you say that you have an innie or an outie?
        • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
          3·
          7 days ago

          1. I warm up when I’m aroused. Starts usually in my ears and other parts slowly start warming up.

          2. Yes, but my stuffed toys are good enough :p

          3. Like imagine a dentist but down there, in a good way.

          4. I thought I did once. I did not. I literally just pissed. 😭

          5. Uhh nothing? Not really anything too wierd.

          6. Belly button and clit are both innie i believe

          • shadow_acct@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
            2·
            7 days ago

            Two more follow up questions:

            • What does cunnilingus feel like to you? I just saw your edit.
            • Are your inner labia innie as well?
          • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
            21·
            7 days ago

            ‘Squirting’ literally is just pissing.

            There is no … magic, secret ‘squirting’ gland that secrets ‘squirting fluid’.

            When you see that in porn, its either a woman pissing, maybe from having such a mindblowing orgasm they literally loose bladder control, more likely no, its a staged shot and they’re just acting, pissing on cue…

            … Or, they basically just fill up their vagina with some kind of fluid, and they push it out in some way.

            https://www.salon.com/2022/09/20/dye-anatomy-study-urology/

            Technically, “real” squirting can contain fluids from the Skene’s gland or Batholin’s gland, basically stuff the vagina uses to lubricate itself… but yeah “squirting” literally is just pissing yourself from basically a very strong, or different kind of orgasm.

            The porn industry has massively overplayed and distorted this into something it really isn’t.

            If your lady is “squirting” all the time, she probably has something wrong with her urinary tract or the muscles around her bladder, something like that, she’s incontinent, she is probably not regularly blown away by your fucking skills.

            • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
              2·
              7 days ago

              I believe there was a reduced urea concentration in “squirt” tho I’m too lazy to check.

              • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
                2·
                7 days ago

                https://academic.oup.com/jsm/article-abstract/12/3/661/6966885

                BSU = Before Sexual Stimulation Urine

                (Ie, they had them pee in a bottle before hand)

                S = The actual ‘squirt’ liquid

                ASU = After Sexual Stimulation Urination

                (pee in a bottle again after squirting)

                PSA = Prostate Secreted Antigen

                (where Skene’s gland is also known as “the female prostate”)

                Results

                …

                Biochemical analysis of BSU, S, and ASU showed comparable urea, creatinine, and uric acid concentrations in all participants. Yet, whereas PSA was not detected in BSU in six out of seven participants, this antigen was present in S and ASU in five out of seven participants.

                Conclusions

                The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.

                https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609515333464

                Results

                In this case report, we provided new biochemical evidences demonstrating that the clear and abundant fluid that is ejected in gushes (squirting) is different from the real female ejaculation. While the first has the features of diluted urines (density: 1,001.67 ± 2.89; urea: 417.0 ± 42.88 mg/dL; creatinine: 21.37 ± 4.16 mg/dL; uric acid: 10.37 ± 1.48 mg/dL), the second is biochemically comparable to some components of male semen (prostate‐specific antigen: 3.99 ± 0.60 × 103 ng/mL).

                Conclusions

                Female ejaculation and squirting/gushing are two different phenomena. The organs and the mechanisms that produce them are bona fide different. The real female ejaculation is the release of a very scanty, thick, and whitish fluid from the female prostate, while the squirting is the expulsion of a diluted fluid from the urinary bladder.

                https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene's_gland

                In female human anatomy, Skene’s glands or the Skene glands (/skiːn/ SKEEN, also known as the lesser vestibular glands or paraurethral glands[1]) are two glands located towards the lower end of the urethra. The glands are surrounded by tissue that swells with blood during sexual arousal, and secrete a fluid, carried by the Skene’s ducts to openings near the urethral meatus, particularly during orgasm.

                …

                In an amount of a few milliliters, fluid is secreted from these glands when stimulated from inside the vagina.[9][10] Female ejaculation and squirting (secretion of large amounts of fluid) are believed by researchers to be two different processes. They may occur in combination during orgasm. Squirting alone is a sudden expulsion of liquid that at least partly comes from the bladder and contains urine, whereas ejaculation fluid includes a whitish transparent ejaculate that appears to come from the Skene’s gland.[3][11]

                So, if I am understanding this all correctly, a diluted urea concentration is what you would normally expect from basically urine.

                “Squirting” just is primarily urine, a release of urine from the bladder, through the urethra, though it seems it can have a bit more substances from the female prostate / Skene’s gland mixed in with it than normal urine.

                The uh, openings or exit points of the Skene’s gland are apparently on either side of or around the exterior opening of the urethra.

                Then you also have the Bartholin’s glands, which apparently ‘exit’ around the ‘bottom’ of the vagina.

                And the Skene and Bartholin’s glands both secrete, enlarge, and emit different kinds of liquids with specific chemical signatures when a woman is highly aroused / orgasming.

                So… perhaps this has something to do with different ‘kinds’ of orgasms women can experience… I imagine it would or could feel physically different if different parts of your body are differently enlarged and then discharging.

                There is apparently a distinct phenomenon of actual ‘female ejaculation’, but this does not primarily come from the urethra.

                This seems to be a sudden and substantial sort of emptying of all of that vaginal lubricant supplied by the Skene’s glands / female prostate, possibly also the Bartholin’s glands, that all happens rather rapidly, is milky and viscous like male semen, and does not come out of the urethra.

                So, normally, this is the stuff that uh, ‘leaks’ from a highly aroused, “wet” vagina, but in some cases… apparently it just all comes out at once, as opposed to like a steady drip feed.

                Personally, … I think I may have seen something like that a number of times.

                I… have been with women / had specific encounters where there was considerably more, and considerably more ‘milky’ liquid than what I would call ‘normal’, where normally its more clear, less substanial.

                I do not know if it was … all discharged at once though.

                So uh… seeing as even ‘science’ barely understands what the fuck is going on here, maybe you could comment on your experiences with this?

                Have you ever had a much more substantial and milky uh, female ejaculation from the vagina, as opposed to a ‘normal’ amount of just being aroused and wet?

                That seems to happen fairly rapidly, or… maybe is more volume than normal, but over a sustained period of time?

                Does that coincide with a different ‘kind’ of orgasm?

                Please, for science!

                • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
                  2·
                  7 days ago

                  Uhhh i guess I’m back doing research again? Oh god uni days are back again 😖. Lol anyways I wouldnt mind going back to those days.

                  Well from when I can remember “milky” orgasms/ejaculations I think it’s always been during a rougher session. Tho I don’t think it was all at once. (I remember some guys saying they can see me creaming or something. Tho that could also be lube/pre cum or something getting aerated from the roughness?)

                  I am wetter after an orgasm and it does feel like I “released” something. Tho I have never seen any real big volume of any sort of liquid.

                  So I guess the wetness(?) increases over time but I don’t feel like that’s related to the orgasm. Feel more like regular vaginal fluid(not the periods one) type of thing.

                  I don’t recall any links to milkyness with different orgasms.

  • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    3·
    8 days ago

    Couple of questions:

    Out of those 100, how many partners / encounters were where you were the active fucker? As in, you were in some sex position where you were doing most of or all the actual active, energetic effort, for the majority of the encounter?

    I guess as a follow up to that: How many repeat encounters with the same person or people, vs just a one time thing?

    Do you more view this as … a strategy to climb corporate / social ladders / open doors for you, or is it more just you being very open to or desirous of sex and any other effects are ancillary?

    (Or perhaps roughly evenly in the middle of those two?)

    Ratio of girls / guys / other you’ve partnered with?

    How long would you say an average session lasts, whats the shortest and longest duration? Any noticable patterns for whom you have a short time with vs a long time?

    (Just counting with a single partner, you already mentioned a gang bang so that would probably skew those numbers a good deal)

    And maybe some oddballs for the final questions:

    How many times, if ever, have you had sex with someone, and your partner never actually cums?

    Same question but where your partner actually comes more than once?

    And, you said you only come 15 to 20% of the time already, but you ever come multiple times?

    I guess break those down by sex / gender of partners if you are bi / pan / etc.

    Sorry if this seems like a lot of q’s but I am both a data analyst and also unabashedly open about my sexuality, though you’ve got roughly 5x to 10x my body count, lol.

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      5·
      8 days ago

      Not too sure tbh, I like to try many positions so I’m not always “active”

      I have a fair few FWB. Lived with a few of them too. Maybe 10%?

      I’ve fucked my boss and got a promotion, I already had one from my performance and the sex got me another. I don’t think I’ll do that again tho. I fucked him for the thrill but I realised I could ask for a promotion so I did that.

      Mostly guys, only time there’s other girls is if it’s an orgy of some kind, which I’ve only gone to one of.

      Session length really really depends on what we’re doing. Lazy and unfit guys tend to be worse, even the most basic fitness seems to help a lot.

      I really like to make sure my partners cum. There are a few times older guys didn’t cum but from what ik that’s not a me problem (I hope)

      Yes, some guys can make me cum super quick and repeatedly.

      I’m very straight. I tried sleeping with a girl but it just didn’t click.

      PS I’m also a bit into data analysis so I’ve tried to use the correct words.

      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        1·
        8 days ago

        Well, hah, thank you for putting in the ‘active effort’ to answer my battery of questions. =P

        So if I’m reading this right, it would probably be fair to say that you mainly just… have a very high sex drive, very much enjoy sex both for yourself and your partner, and any social benefits or detriments that result from that are generally secondary, and you tend toward thinking about the potential or actual consequences of any particular sexual encounter… after they take place.

        Entirely not meaning to be rude, but… have you considered that you may legitimately be a nymphomaniac?

        Do you… have, generally, persistent thoughts about masturbating or you’re just very often quite horny, or you often have thoughts about potentially having sex with almost any one you see, to the point that it breaks your ability to focus or concentrate on other tasks?

        I ask because I once met a woman who… described herself as a nymphomaniac, and described it as legitimately debilitating in that she could not focus on studies or being in a classroom… she was quite intelligent, very academically gifted, but described this to me as a very serious daily struggle for her.

        Also, some months back, on my old account, I tried to run some numbers on this general topic.

        https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/35653687/16009784

        …if you go by median instead of mean, its probably actually lower than 5 (probably 3 ish?), as 45% of people have had one sexual partner or less.

        (That is to say, the ‘typical’ person has probably had about 3 or 4 sex partners over their whole life, the mean or average of about 5 gets skewed away from that by the ‘long tail’ of small numbers of people who’ve had a high number of sex partners)

        Displayed in another way:

        0 partners : 10% of pop.

1 partner: 35% of pop.

2 - 10 partners: 43% of pop.

11 - 25 partners: 7% of pop.

26 - 40 partners: 4% of pop.

41 - 75 partners: 2% of pop.

76 - 100 partners: 3% of pop.

100+ partners: 3% of pop.

        Not trying to slut shame at all, but… you having 100+ partners by age 24 is… highly uncommon, an outlier, as you say, so I very much value the ability to ask such a rare outlier for their perspective and experiences.

        IIRC, those numbers are for total lifetime sex partners of people of all ages, and you are already nearly outside of 2 standard deviations by age 24, you’d be likely to get outside of 3 std devs if you keep up this pace for another decade.

        (1 std dev each way from the mean captures 68% of a data set, 2 std devs captures 95%, 3 std devs captures 99.6%)

        ((also, iirc, these numbers are for USAmericans, they could potentially and probably do differ somewhat by geographic location, different cultural norms, etc))

        (((also also, these numbers are just for people generally, not specific to any sex or gender or sexual orientation)))

        Segueing from that; yes, of course, myself and the nymphomaniac ended up being FWB for a while, where I can give you this uh, specific data point:

        We once set aside a literal entire day for sex, and we fucked for at least 8 hours straight. Literally sun up to sun down.

        We had planned to try to keep track of, but eventually both lost count of how many times we came, and literally had to take the entire following day off to physically recover, as if we’d just done an all day bar crawl and were horrendously hungover.

        So, hah, you had any sessions go over 8 hours?

        • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
          2·
          8 days ago

          I am 99.9% confident that I am not a nymphomaniac. I kinda just act on my desires rather than suppressing them. From what I understand I should be in a far worse mental state rn, if I was a nymphomaniac. (No sex since a few weeks) Maybe there’s a spectrum to being a nymphomaniac? If so I’m probably there somewhere.

          W.r.t to not being able to focus if I didn’t have sex, I do have that but it’s not too common. The “hunger” dies down naturally when it’s not a good thing.

          Tbh the numbers are fascinating but I have to take it with a kilo of salt. I really refuse to trust data that talk about “taboo” aspects. I don’t know how or if the numbers are skewed but I just can’t trust them. That being said, I am obviously an outlier so ig that won’t change lol.

          Also I doubt if I’ll “keep the pace”. I don’t think I’m getting any more attractive and I’m already seeing signs of lower energy. So i really doubt if I’ll be able to (or even want to) “keep the pace”. Also there’s the COVID effect. Lockdowns and stuff really made me overcompensate lol.

          I don’t think I’ve ever fucked for 8 full hours. I’ve fucked over a longer period but never only sex or for as long (maybe most at a go 3 hrs?). 8 hours is really really impressive!

          • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
            2·
            8 days ago

            Yeah, I am not a psychologist or anything, but I am glad that you didn’t take the question as an insult, it came from a place of genuine, potential concern, but it sounds like you’ve got a decent grasp on yourself as a person, so that’s good!

            Yeah, I think I would agree that there is probably a spectrum to nymphomania, and you don’t seem to place nearly as highly on it as the woman I knew.

            I also totally understand your apprehension to just take the data at face value.

            Those numbers come from uh… I think it was a fairly large sex toy company that hired an actual sexologist to conduct the study, ie, they have formal training in both psychology and statistics and polling related concepts like how to design surveys with as unbiased questions as possible.

            IIRC, I went with that study months ago because it was fairly recent, and actually had a larger sample size than the other academically published studies I’d seen from within the last 5ish years.

            That being said, the other recent studies I’ve seen, with regard to lifetime sex partners… they are all generally within this same ballpark, such that 100+ partners is always going to significantly be an outlier.

            The other thing, at least in the US but it is present in other places as well:

            There is just generally a rise of incels and femcels, people who have never had sex, or have had no sex within the last year.

            The average a person loses their virginity at is also going up, for all sexes/genders.

            So… yeah, part of why its so statistically unusual to have 100+ partners is that increasing numbers of people… just never fuck.

            The extreme in the opposite direction, basically.

            Random, but: is ‘ig’ short for I Guess?

            IIRC is If I Recall Correctly.

            I realize I am about a decade older than you … I am no longer ‘with it’ when it comes to modern abbreviations and lingo and such, lol.

            As to ‘keeping the pace’: all good all good lol, I wasn’t trying to comment on you personally with that, was just trying to do some mathematical extraploation as a theoretical example, to try and explain standard deviations and such a bit better.

            As to max encounter duration:

            Well hey, 3 hrs is definitely quite an enoyable time, but also thank you, and obviously yes I am bragging just a bit, lol.

            I’m a different kind of statistical outlier!

            Yay!

            • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
              2·
              8 days ago

              I don’t doubt reality is too far from the numbers to be honest, but I’m not going to trust it too much yk?

              Yes incel/femcel stuff is on the rise but tbh I haven’t noticed that too much in my peers. I have seen it significantly more in my juniors, tho that could be a result of my company and stuff.

              “Keeping with the pace”, i didn’t take it personally btw do don’t worry about that. I completed missed the fact that it could be you extrapolating!

              8hrs: Outlier 🤝 Outlier

              PS: someone else commented here saying that they have a 200+ body count and are like 30s male. I’m sure you’ll be interested lol.

              • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
                2·
                8 days ago

                All good all good!

                I did not see that other commenter, whom I will just dub ‘megachad’, haha, I’ll go look for it.

                Did you see my other comment to you on another… comment branch?

                Would be intersted in your thoughts on that.

        • edwardbear@lemmy.worldEnglish
          1·
          8 days ago

          is there something in common the guys that made you cum quick share? i hope it’s not just dick size lol

          • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
            6·
            8 days ago

            No lol it’s not big dick = quick cum. Some guys can move very well and stimulate spots very differently. Also they ask what I liked and changed based on that.

            • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
              2·
              8 days ago

              I really wish a lot more of both guys and gals knew this, that just communicating during sex, telling people directly what you like and what you don’t, where to touch, when, and how, instead of just grunting or whimpering the whole time, is really, really important.

              So many people just… try to do what they see in a porno, or just… are too embarassed to speak, or just don’t listen.

              Also, for guys: Almost all women literally need foreplay to actually, highly enjoy sex.

              Start slow, tease her a bit at first, be a bit coy, don’t just go straight to jackhammering, she’s got a whole body of erogenous zones, maybe familiarize yourself with some of them first, ask her about them.

              Also also: This does vary, size queens are real and do exist, but… most? many? women will actually experience signifigant pain from gigantocock.

              Vaginas do expand when aroused, but if you’re literally punching her kidneys with an over 8 or 9 inch cock, generally speaking, thats actually quite painful, and most women do not like that as much as something a bit smaller.

              I guess hell, priya, would you say you have an ideal partner length/girth?

              • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
                4·
                8 days ago

                Yes! Just talk lol.

                Also guys please moan. Don’t be quiet. Even the grunts are good, let me hear it!

                Tbh I like big dicks because sex a lot of positions are easier to do (like full nelson). Doggy + big dick is going to be painful but sometimes in a good way.

                I really don’t have an ideal size. As long as it’s not below 4" I’m good.

                • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
                  3·
                  8 days ago

                  That’s true that there are a number of positions that just don’t work as well if you aren’t packing a bit more than average, or I guess maybe exceptionally flexible.

                  Adding in that you like guys not being mute is also a good point!

                  Just for clarity, when you say big dick in doggy pose can approach your personal pain vs pleasure threshold, where would you draw the line at what ‘big dick’ size is, for doggy, and/or maybe other positions where its been a bit painful?

                  Also, given that… 100 dicks is a pretty large sample size for one person, what would you say is about the average size that you’ve uh… ahem, encountered?

  • zxqwas@lemmy.worldEnglish
    3·
    9 days ago

    Do you think it impacted your career positively, negatively, or neutral? (Or perhaps all three over the courseof your adventures.)

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      4·
      9 days ago

      It has affected it positively. I got a promotion on my merits and one cuz I was fucking my boss. Tho I’m not sure if I’ll ever fuck any of my future bosses.

  • Pornphilosoph@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    3·
    8 days ago

    How much of the sex did you initiate versus your sexual partner? Phrased differently: Did most of the guys hit on you and you said yes or did you have to initiate more?

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      2·
      7 days ago

      In the beginning I was approached more. Now I don’t really meet too many new people so it depends. Probably near 50/50 now.

    • Priya@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      3·
      8 days ago

      It’s not something I’m tired of. My sexual drive is still high.

      Lots of men are creepy. Not sure about a percentage. Higher than it should be tho.

      Not sure if it’s esoteric per say but I love cum a lot more than the average.