personally it s very much a time and place thing. like if i’m wearing that to a place like a club i obviously want the attention and don’t mind anything as long as it doesn’t become dangerous. on the other hand if i’m just walking around during the day braless i expect subtlety.

for anyone wondering the vibe is

a bra similar to this a stylish blazer + miniskirt + heels + bag jewelry

it’s high fashion slutty

sorry, you’ll never see me post explicit stuff online🙂‍↔️

sigh… if you’d actually read that rule in full, you’d have been able to tell that it refers to technical/site support

i’m not a one trick pony, i have my fair share of non horny posts😒

the date isn’t happening anymore. he texted me asking if we could change the venue as he realized he can’t really afford that restaurant at the moment (???, why was this realization so last minute) & i told him no worries i can pay for everything. he told me no way i could ever let a girl pay, it’s not fair to the girl and also “emasculating” to him. hate that attitude. called it off and cut contact. thank u, next.

we talk about life, interests, hobbies, politics, small talk, random stuff; the basics, everything and anything. haven’t felt a gap in terms of communication

it’s a nice restaurant part of a 4 star hotel. i suggested it as i’ve eaten there many times before and i know the food and experience is bomb

yeah

i’m just exploring

I didn’t flag it because I don’t think it’s NSFW, since it isn’t graphic in nature. The community rules also say NSFW content is fine within reason. I’d rather post here to reach a wider audience than in a smaller community, especially since Lemmy is already relatively small to begin with.

True. That’s not what I meant. Some people just watch it for the action or the attractive bodies, without really caring who the performers are.

yeah

we had a disagreement over condom usage

it was fun but it s one and done as i disliked his attitude

the joke is the awkward small talk with someone you barely know & time + place of birth are used to create an astrology birth chart :)

feeling kinda sorry for him as he has work at 8 am and won’t get much sleep

Well, my Swiss passport gives me 45 days visa-free, and I’m planning to max it out. That’s why I need an “unanchored” travel partner.

Itinerary-wise, I’m thinking of doing the Hanoi-Hue-Da Nang-Nha Trang-Da Lat-Ho Chi Minh route, plus Ha Long and Phu Quoc, but I want to go with the flow once I’m there, so nothing too fixed.

Yeah, that’s true.

Those are more general considerations rather than location-specific ones.

From what I’ve read, it’s legal for foreigners to drive in Vietnam with an IDP, but in practice most rental agencies won’t rent a car to foreigners unless you also hire a local chauffeur.

mengele would’ve been obsessed with omegas and mpreg

ik, it’s just a fantasy

fantasies dont tend to be rooted in practical reality