• wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 days ago

    Usually you can just go harder if you’re already going as deep as you can. Grab onto your partner and pull them towards you as you thrust.

    Alternatively, changing up the angle or position can get you deeper compared to standard missionary. Not as useful right in the moment, but a tool for later.

    Or they might want you to go as deep as you can and stay there with some grinding.

    Just pay attention to your partner’s reactions, go after what makes them feel good, and don’t over think things. After you get some space from it, maybe talk to them about it. Ask them to try and word things differently or something. Life’s too short to stay with someone that you aren’t comfortable being vulnerable with, and especially to stay with someone who would intentionally make you feel lesser during intimate moments (assuming that’s not a kink of yours).